vibrations

love is everything of an individual,which runs in longing and yearning for the one it loves,when both are at a distance.
love is everything of an individual,which runs in giving and never gets contented with it,when both are together.
love is a feeling worth sharing,
love is a poem worth singing in duet.
love is what we feel deep in heart and it is what which makes you desperate to share it with the other.
then what is responsibility?
responsibility is the sense in the individual which makes him carry on his actions which he should do.
responsibility is the the carrier of the task which intensifies the “to do”action.
responsibility is the awareness of the truth.
then what is love and its responsibilities?
does love have responsibilities?
when it is a feeling and a poem,,,does it hold responsibilities?
yes!it does,,as for me,,,,
its a vertical influence of gravity!
no diagonal,no other angle!
it is all the will to care the love,
it is all the thought to comfort the love!
its the immense bliss that you get when taken care of your responsibility.
the immutable truth displayed through your thought,
uniting the spirit of love and thought of resp….
this is what is the perfect love mirror.
you might think that you had your say,,,
you have done your task,
but look into the eyes of your love,,,,,,you’ll find the answer.
that mirror shows the real thing you wanna explore.
its the verdict never expressed but just wished always,,,
responsibility in love is a chisel,,,,,,,,,
carve your relationship in any way you like,,,
but it should turnout to be a beautiful sculpture na?
carve it in a perfect angle and you get it:)
carve it as you wish,
or suppressed under life’s struggle,
and you get an ugly sculpture:(
love is a stinging bruise,without responsibility!
love is an angel of mercy and never ending joy,when lead with responsibility!

we meet so many people everyday.

we speak to many people known or strangers too.

we ask questions,to know about some information.

we answer the questions asked by some people.

from the time we get up early in the morning,it starts with the milkman,and goes on………………..

our family members/colleagues/neighbor etc.,&etc.,…………………………………..

no end for conversations…………….isn’t it?

now u r angry.what’s all this about?

many people doesn’t know how to extract the information they want,from others.

they just aim the questions at the other person,

without ……..

understanding his mental state,

understanding his feelings

and they try to beat out the self esteem.

they mingle up the answer they want to hear,in their question itself.

they should know some fundamental things on how to ask questions.

when the other person doesn’t know,why we have asked him,he may doubt you.
so make him clear,your goal.

give him the value,according to his expressions.
don’t put soooooooooooooooo many questions at a time.

don’t hurry up him to give him his answer.

questions like”is it not what i think?”,”did it happened how i thought?”etc.,can give only yes or no as answers.they can even put the actual answer hidden.so,don’t question like that…….

questions put,which hit the ego/self respect of the other,may inculcate dislike for you,in his heart.so,don’t……………………..

accept the truth that every person has his own thoughts,opinions,just like you do…

“A CONVERSATION SHOULD LEAD TO FRIENDSHIP OR SHOULD ENHANCE THE DEPTH OF FRIENDSHIP,BUT IT SHOULD NOT BREAK IT.”

The sacrifice of a pet dog saved the whole family of Mr.Naushad hussain during the riots of BABRI MASJID destruction in 1992.They hid in a room when the mob of agitators entered their house in INDORE, and wanted to kill them.Their loyal pet dog charged on the attackers to obstruct them from entering the room where Mr.Naushad Hussain’s family was hiding.Furious with anger,the attackers killed it with swords.
Now Naushad’s house is called as “the house of dogs”.His house is a residence of many dogs now.He brings home the street dogs and the one’s whom the owner’s have abandoned due to ill health or old age too.He has constructed a cemetery for dogs in the memory of his pet dog which lost its life saving its master’s family.
What do we have to learn of this?Dog’s are always the loyal friends of human beings.we may not find a great friend in whom we were relying since years.we may not find the pious nature in our relatives on whom we trust all the time,when there comes a time they should help.But we can always trust a dog and its loyalty.
I appreciate Mr.Naushad Hussain for his service to the dogs and I would also like to praise the dog which gave its life for its master.

women are always givers.am i right?

they never ask for so many things.

i believe”this world is ours.take whatever u want,but everything should be right”.

take liberty,that go hand in hand with responsibility.

take friendship,that go hand in hand with honesty.

take love,that go hand in hand with life time walk together.

take a space for your own,where u can breath free,which can build and flourish your individuality,but it should go hand in hand with the society.

take help,that go hand in hand with gratefulness and co-operation.

take your own decisions,that go hand in hand with success.

take failures,that go hand in hand with new lessons taught.

take pains,which are common for every human being,but fight against them.

every woman needs her own space.
her own individuality.
her own recognition.
her part of life’s every gift that god has designed for humans.
she needs a right to make decisions.
she needs a bondage free life,where she can set her goals(big or small)and reach them.
she needs a destination of equality.
needs a profession,but free of sexual harassment,indignity and inequality.
she want a healthy atmosphere,where she can give birth to future of the world.
she want everything which makes the earth more livable.
so,guys give her what she want or let her take what she want and be happy.

human life is entangled every moment with these relationships!
what is there in these ships that everyone feel,
as if they are going on a different voyage in each relationship!
sometimes they float,
sometimes they drown,
sometimes they are caught in a cyclone,
sometimes they are caught in a lonely island!
there is something very deep in giving oneself into a relationship.
relationships are many,,,
many come from birth itself,
some are made when we grow up!
there is a beauty,
there is a commitment,
there is a love,
there is am empathy,
there is something deep and something shallow in every relation we are “in” with!
we laugh with them,
we cry for them,
we are sometimes contented,
and many many times depressed,,,,
with our relationships.
but circumstances dictate them sometimes,
and situations serve their duties many times,,,
we just ignore the roots of every relation when we are in trouble with it!
we just ignore the future with “it”when we are happy with it!
we cling to the feelings and not to the impressions they make.
we cling to the commotions and not to the emotions they give.
give some time for every relation,,,
whether it is a relation,,,,in family,in love or in friendship.
and don’t run into conclusions when something goes wrong.
we are human beings and to err is human,
cherish your best moments when in a confusion (with that relationship)
let the waters of your relationships be shallow when you are in a process of knowing each other.
let it reach the depth on its own,,,even though it takes long time.
complexities are many,
but every relation is a God’s gift,,,
handle with care,,,,,
“need”is just a worthless word in relationships,,
its the inner love,respect,loyalty and empathy that helps you go on your sail……

it takes a non conscious attitude to laugh and smile the way you want to!

i have seen so many people who hold their laugh and jus give a

little smile being conscious that others are observing them.

i have seen people who put their hand or both hands on their mouth when they “attempt”to laugh.

laughter is an audible expression of your joy and merriment.

it is a part of human behaviour which is regulated by the brain and

it helps humans to clarify their intensions in social interaction and

provides an emotional context to conversations.

now lemme tell u the disadvantages of holding your laugh or smile:

disadvantages of holding your smile:

when something,a joke or a feeling,a scene or a humourous

situation evokes laughter inside,and when you hold your

laughter,it puts stress on your attitude.

you can’t feel satisfied even though you respond to the thing that made you laugh.

you can’t feel light at heart or experience total happiness of the thing that made you laugh.

it becomes a habit of holding your laugh and you respond with a half smile or hand covered giggle.

it puts stress on your diaphram even.

holding your laughter means putting your hand as an obstacle against the release of endorphins which enrich your immune system.
it maystop you from mingling freely with the society.

it may stop you from being a humour loving person or avoiding humour persona.
now lets know the advantages of a laughter without inhibitions:

laughter reduces the level of stress hormones.

it increases the level of health enhancing hormones like endorphins and neurotransmitters.

it increases the number of anti-body producing cells and enhances the effectiveness of T-cells which means the enriching of stronger immune system.

it provides a physical and emotional release.you will feel as if you are cleansed after a heart and belly full of laughter.

a good belly laugh exercises your diaphram,contracts the abs and even works out the shoulders leaving muscles more relaxed afterward.

it even provides a good workout for the heart.

it brings the focus away from anger,guilt,stress and negative emotions.

it improves our perspective to view things lightheartedly.

it helps us to accept challenges of life.

it helps us to react more positive to our life situations.

it helps build our social interaction and connects us with others.

it helps in elevating your’s and the mood of other’s around you.

the most important thing is that you feel so happy and fresh after you laugh to your hearts content giving you a wonderful satisfaction.
this is what are the disadvantages and advantages of laughter.

but lets think onething,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

why should we think about all the things mentioned above?

lets laugh to our hearts content when it wants to laugh,,,throwing out all the inhibitions…