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Jan 21 2009

technology harassment on women!

camera.jpgThey have become ammunition in the hands of romeo’s.They are sleek,handy,tiny,can be set anywhere and everywhere without anyone’s notice too.camera mobile phones–today’s best hitech pieces in everyone’s hand and pocket.leave about the advantages they can provide us with.women are facing lots of problems with these pride buttercakes of new technological invention.Anyone can hold a camera and take your picture.we don’t know where they are set in changing rooms of shopping malls or hotel bathrooms or guest houses.pictures of woman are taken and are send in as mms.video is taken and copied into CD’s to share among friends and many times it is sold or marketed.now it has spread in small villages too and due to this barbarian act,many women in villages are committing suicides.modern technology is spreading vastly all over the world but the laws to be enforced to control crimes in the guise of technology are zero.only old one’s exist and amendments are not done.last december a new IT law was approved by both the sabha’s of parliament.but it is still pending with the president.According to the ammended IT law section 66(E),,,3 years of imprisonment and 2 lakhs of penalty will be laid on the offenders.It would be better if more hard laws are enforced to control such crimes.
women should be careful while changing clothes in changing rooms of shopping malls.just look around and up to see it there are any hidden camera’s.
if you are in a hotel or a guest house,change clothes in the dark.

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Jan 20 2009

share affection to grandparents!

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In this hitech age,people are just like computers working dawn till dusk,achieving so many victories in the race of life.But did you ever think of the parents who gave us birth and brought up us to live a great life like this?many people say that “hey,we provide our parents with good food ,clothes and shelter.we do give them needful money too”.But just think once.Is this enough?are we not becoming more practical than being bonded with emotional shades?when parents become old,they are in need for more emotional attachments and they feel more to spend their time with their children and grand children.spend a littlle more time with them everyday.listen to what they want to say.they will feel so happy.let your children get more affection from their grand parents by letting them spend more time with them.growing distances between family members is not good for the family or the society.so please let your children to be with their grand parents and share affection to them.

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Jan 19 2009

meaning of life

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u-6.jpgu-5.jpgu-4.pngu-3.jpgu-2.jpgu-1.jpgone ambition,

one goal,

one dream,

one reality,

one aspiration,

one life,

this is all the meaning of life,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

one society,

one construction,

one bond,being together,

one organisation of friendship,

one help,

one shoulder offered,

this is the ultimate meaning of life,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

this is what i think friends!

have aspirations and aims in your life,

aquire whatever you want,

with your hardwork and will,,,,

have dreams,

and fulfill them,

with all your efforts,,,,,,,

and then,,,,,

look onto the society and think what you can do for it,,

lend your hand in constructing it,

give your help to the ones who need it,

give your shoulder for the ones who can get relieved by putting their head on it,,,

this is what is the ultimate meaning of life!

hope you all can agree with me,

and implement it,,,,

and you will see that life is more and more beautiful .

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Jan 18 2009

value life

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value-3.jpgvalue-2.jpgif every moment,

is filled with happiness,

if every journey,

tries its walk on a smooth path,

if every destiny,

is at the reach of your hand,

if every desire,

is fulfilled very easily,

if every dream,

comes true,,,,

life would be very beautiful,,,,,

but the feeling of its being beautiful,

would have lost.

the feet,

which crossed the path of thorns,

only knows the smoothness of flowers.

the eyes,

which had flown floods of tears,

only know the meaning of joy.

the heart,

which has gone through grief,

can only know the value of happiness.

the joy,

which wipes out the sorrow,

gives contented emotion.

the sweetness,

which shows its taste to a bitter tongue,

has utmost value.

a soul,

which is a bundle of every experience,

only knows the “VALUE OF LIFE”.

SOOOOOOOOO,FRIENDS,

LET’S ENJOY LIFE IN EVERY SITUATION:)

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Jan 17 2009

why are some people so narrow minded?

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chat-2.jpgchat-1.jpgit has been 5 and a half months that i am using net.i am passionate to write what my heart feels.i have a very beautiful world of my own which i made with efforts.i have few friends who are so close to me.but they are all women like me.when i joined this site,i happened to interact with so many people,both men and women.i had chitchats with many and i found such a nice people in this site that,,,,,few of my close online friends care for me so much.few of them are very close to my heart now.they enquire about me and my family.many of them talk to me on phone,,,,when i get ill,they call me or chat with me,ask me to take medicines properly,etc.,
they share my feelings,my situations too.i feel so happy and contented to have such friends on net.i feel so happy for the love and respect they give me.
since few days,,,,i have met with few people who are new to me.first they chat well.ask about me and tell about themselves.after that,they start another way of conversation.what is your age?married?if married,are you happy with your marriage?
are you alone at home now?does your husband knows that you chat with people on net?give me your phone number.i am feeling romantic about you.let’s talk on phone.etc.,and etc.,,,,,,,,
i just want to tell such people one thing,,,,,,,
don’t have a cheap look on women or girls who use net or go for a chat.
this is a speed computer age and many are using net.women now a days are coming out of their houses for work.girls are coming to webcafe’s and using it.
chating is just interacting with people and making friends,if you like them.
we now get the chance to express our thoughts and feelings in blogs.we are happy to interact with so many people and share our feelings.
its not the thing that you are a girl or a boy.man or a woman.we are human beings and we are sitting on the world arena called the internet.
please don’t judge someone on the thing that she is a girl or a lady and that she is here to entertain you.
learn to respect them if you can and if not leave them on their place.don’t underestimate or look upon them with indignity.
i am so confused seeing such people and very angry actually.i don’t know whether i have expressed my agony promptly or not.but i know that u people can understand what i wanted to say.

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Jan 16 2009

Teacher inspires!

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td-4.jpgA poor teacher tells;
An average teacher explains;
A good teacher demonstrates;
And a great teacher inspires.
this is the quotation we use to tell about a teacher.
everyone will agree with this.
every teacher comes into one of the four categories mentioned above.
a teacher is the builder of the nation.
Dr.Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan said”the future of the nation is built in the class rooms”.
“there are so many professions in this world,,,
but the satisfaction this profession gives,,,being a teacher,,can never be given by any other profession”.
we can say that there is 90% of effect of a teacher on the child.
the way a teacher teaches;
teacher’s individuality;
the way of guidance;
friendly nature;
are the factors which effect the child’s brain and heart.
a teacher should have 3 most important characters:
1.knowledge:teacher should have more knowledge of his subject and he should always be a student to learn new things from the ever changing world.
that is why Rabindranath Tagore said”a lamp which is burning can only give light to another lamp.”
2.capability to teach:teacher should have the capability to teach,,,such a capability that can reach every mind,,star of the class,average,and the slow learner.
should be ready to give answer to any doubt,a student may ask.
should have the capability of patience.
teaching should go hand in hand with the new methods.
“it is not important what we teach,,it is important,,how we teach.”
“teaching should be a conversation handling the child psychology.”
3.enthusiasm/interest:a teacher who has respect towards his profession,self content,love and affection towards his pupils,who is hard working always,,for the development of the students,,,can be identified as an enthusiastic teacher.
“teacher should encourage,motivate and inspire the children.he should be creative and should be capable of solving the problems of pupils.”
such a teacher,who succeeds in having these three characteristics,,,
is sure to be called as an ideal teacher,,,
and is sure to be in the hearts of students for ever,,,
such a person was Sri.Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan.
think of the wonderful tomorrow of our nation if we can see a Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan in every class!

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Jan 15 2009

wanna work better and fast?

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Now a days,its time which matters a lot.There is no delaying process in any of the professions.Everything has become so fast tasked and deadlines dictating the terms.we get dipped up many times while running with the tasks and fearing all the time and putting ourselves into stress.
we can manage our things to a great extent if we are organized and follow some strict rules and make them a habit of your daily routine.lets check out what can make us work better and fast.
1.Use a computer:Your pc with a latest software can make you more productive.
2.Be a realist than a perfectionist:Be a realist and know your potential to do the work.but don’t try to be a perfectionist.
3.Leave the pressure:don’t trigger yourself with lots of pressure to complete the work.pressure actually lessens your productivity.
4.Take a break:take a break between working.your brain needs it.
5.Deadline should be firm:make a firm deadline and stand on it.
6.Know the value of time:don’t ever waste or kill the time.be productive always in mind.
7.Set your goal:set a goal with perfect determination and see that you reach it.
8.love your work:love the work you do and everything will be easy.
9.Enjoy your work:it gives a great deal of satisfaction when you enjoy doing your work.so enjoy it.
10.keep yourself busy:be busy always and see that u set goals with deadlines.it will make you fast and better in doing your work.

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Jan 14 2009

Time for action!

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india.pngo terrorist!

a havoc which is like a hurricane,

a murky deed like a vulture,

a barbarian act like a lunatic,

this is ur identity!isn’t it?

a dead heart,

a dead soul,

but a living cruelty,

this is the “you”.isn’t it?

revolving round violence,

rotating around irrational thinking,

lingering to stab the peace to its depth,

this is your walk.isn’t it?

weigh your gain and see if you got it according to your expectations!

weigh your deed and see if you have well executed it or not!

go and see the innocent people who lost their organs and limbs in your attack!

go and see the heaps of dead bodies and the terror you created,in their wide opened yet lifeless eyes,,,still terrified!

bombs and granades,,,,,,,

are not human!

they don’t have a heart!

they don’t have even a little bit of humanity!

but the one who is throwing them ruthlessly,,,,”you” are a human!

you have a heart which beats,,,

wisdom which tells you what is good and bad,,,

thinking ability which can lead your activities,,,

what happened to you?

don’t you think you are a puppet ?!!!

acting according to ruthless barbarian signs?!!!!!!!

where is the success?

that you wanted?

where is your destiny?

which you want to reach?

have you gained what you have to,,,,from all this barbarian act?

hatred on police,,,you throw it as a reason!

hatred on the policies,,,,you boast for yourself!

hatred on our motherland,,,,you deliberately speak out!

what do you think?

we are here to moan over your deeds?

we are here to be a spectator of your havoc?

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

you think you’ll escape from us?,go untouched after all this?

your soul will never leave you nor will we,,,,,

see what happens!

see what’s your fate!

we love peace,,,,,

but that doesn’t mean that we will keep staring at your ruthless deeds!

we love amity,,,,

but that doesn’t mean that we will forgive you all!

see what happens!

see how we will end your identity!

INDIA is ONE and when it unites for a purpose,,,,that purpose is always served and WE will see that you fell uprooted and WE will see that you are burnt to ashes!

THIS IS THE TIME WE PUT A FULL STOP FOR OUR PATIENCE!

THIS IS THE TIME WE SHOW WHAT IS “INDIA”.

THIS IS THE TIME WE FIX OUR ACTION AND SEE THAT IT STRIKES HARD ON THESE TERRORISTS!

LETS UNITE TO FORM ONE HAND!

JAI HIND.salute our soldiers who laid their lives for us and build INDIA in such a way that we don’t need to shed their lives anymore.

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Jan 13 2009

Its great to be a woman!

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zssq6zo_bajpg.jpgatgaaabwfodsfqlbetnf3qblug14obzapk7ouqr0ybrgcriz-blaxwlldxkzpbqqhdwykk3r2vcb0diaflquw5gdcsahajtu9vdciyjzrrd9sm_gyzinb5swr-2olw_1536x2048.jpgIt’s not good to be a woman,but it’s great to be a woman.we can’t imagine,but everything in this world,is in the hand’s of woman.
u are in a dilemma!whether to agree or not,right?
but it’s true.
mythology has not wrongly said that woman is an enormous energy/shakti………….
the stories of godesses we read,are not different from a common woman………true….
just,the circumstances are different.
i have heard so many woman say,”it’s better to be a tree in the forest rather than being born as a woman”.
it’s the woman who speak so,who are helpless and make themselves helpless.
let’s see how,what i said is true and how great is it to be a woman……
• a woman is has balanced state of mind,even from childhood.
• she can manage many things on her own.
• her mental health is many times stronger compared to a man.
• she can directly take care of her own health(but many women don’t keep sometime for themselves,but they should)
• she is always capable of making a beautiful,peaceful,healthy home.
• she is that potential energy,which she can transfer to every member in her family.
• it’s true that god has given her the oppurtunity to give birth to children.so,she can do that.what’s great in that?(many men say so)but do you what happens to a woman when in concieving,she not only nurtures her baby with her feed,she teaches the baby so many things,through her experiences,even in concieving state.the feelings,the experiences,overcoming the health hazards,the enormous affection towards the baby etc., can only be felt by a women.
• she can manage many things at a time,which is a big task.
• she can shatter “the glass ceiling”of injustice,humiliation just in seconds,if she wishes strongly.
• she has enormous will power.no obstacle can stop her from doing what she want to(she knows that she can do,but gives utmost value to the family,so stops.but here u can understand the amount of value she gives for her family and surroundings.it’s not fear,but it’s the question of values.
• her love is shown through her feelings,her care&affection.
• she is the root cause of the world’s the very being,she is the gardener,who presents a beautiful garden to the whole world.
• “a woman educated,is the whole family educated” is true.
• her planning for anything is most of the times perfect.
• she can manage work and family in balance.
• her ability to make and influence decisions is always great(but she is not many times given a chance to prove)
• her beauty also counts dears,she has both inner and outer beauty.
• her state of mind affects the whole family.
• she only can bring up children into good citizens.it’s many/most times hard for a man.
• health of the whole family is in her hand.
she is the personification of sacrifice,love,affection and wonderful individuality.
that’s why it’s great to be a woman.
it’s great only when the two genders mingle in a beautiful relation realising eachone’s greatness and enjoying life.
both of them should keep this in mind.

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Jan 12 2009

Be careful of online cheats!

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This has happened in call centre of HSBC in visakhapatnam branch,A.P,INDIA.one of its level-8 officer in its call centre,withdrew 47 lakh rupees from an online account of one of its customers.details are as below:

yuvapagoni of Ahens-Greece,has an account in Dubai branch of HSBC.to know some details about her account,she called visakhapatnam branch and it was attended by Rahul kumar (who is from Asamsol,West Bengal)who was level-8 officet of HSBC call centre.she mentioned her pin number and account number during the talk unexpectedly and he saved them.

Then he opened two accounts in HSBC one with his name as rahul prasad (with his original pic)and other as spectrum constructions.he converted 67 lakhs from yuvapagoni’s Dubai account in 5 terms.Aa a rule,when a money transacton is done from foreign country to india,mumbai based inword remittance team(IRT)calls the concerned person to for permission to transfer the money.Rahul who created a fake email id and mobile number on her name,spoke like yuvapagoni and permitted IRT to transfer money.47 lakhs were transfered to his account.

Then he resigned his job.before accepting his resignation,when the higher officials observed the call of yuvapagoni and rahul’s conversation which was recorded,they came to know the truth and at that time itself restricted spectrum constrction account.but by then he withdrew 47 lakhs.

He is caught by the police now and found that he invested all the amount in his brick kiln business and purchased a new safari car.

NOW WHAT SHOULD WE KNOW?

1.WHEN YOU CALL A CALL CENTRE,BE CAREFUL WHILE YOU TELL YOUR DETAILS.

2.DON’T MENTION YOUR PIN NUMBER ANYTIME TO ANYONE.

3.DON’T MENTION YOUR ONLINE BANK ACCOUNT NUMBER UNTILL ITS NECESSARY AND THE PERSON RECEIVED IT IS RELIABLE.

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