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Feb 07 2009

ARE YOU SICK WITH PROCRASTINATION?

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Procrastination is a sickness.We may not agree with it but it is true.Reasons may be many if we can count.We can say that its like a disease which drives into a conclusion that anything can be done however late it may be.But many a times we get defeated in our life and this is the result of living every second with procrastination topping on our heads.We can get rid of this sickness.Here are some ways to get rid of it:
1.Be inspired always.
2.Think about the fruits of the hardwork.
3.Think of the negative sides of life due to procrastination.
4.Imagine the pain,guilt,and conscience torture you are facing and write them on a paper.
5.Analyse the financial crisis procrastination creates.
6.Take a perfect,strong decision not to procrastinate anytime.
7.Imagine how smooth and happy will be your life without procrastination.
8.Don’t paralyse your action to be taken at time.
9.Be stimulative always.
10.Keep your life in condition and be inspired always.

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Feb 06 2009

ATM-Any Time Money/Mess!

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Banking has become fore flexible in the techno savvy world now a days.Standing in a line to withdraw money is not the thing we do.We just click on the ATM machine and get our money within a minute.Lets first congratulate the technology which has brought up this wonderful machine ,which makes our life more comfortable and lessens our efforts.But we will accept to our minds brim, that no machine can be that effective and without defects like human manual work.Any new technology should have a defect detector and the method to overcome the defect or the loss done by it.But it seems that ATM(called as Any Time Money)doesn’t have that sought of thing.Now a days when we try to withdraw money,the machine either gets stuck or our money gets stuck or the money is not pushed out. But it shows in the statement that we have withdrawn our amount.When we approach the bank authorities for proper action,they show us the lengthy process that they have to send the details to mumbai and after enquiring all the other branches of the bank,our amount will be remitted.But God knows when that will be fulfilled.Going around the bank to apply,to enquire,to re enquire and all ,takes so much of time and money too.And the most bitter thing is the insecurity of our money saved and the mental tension built.It would be better if there were some defect detectors at the spot which can rectify the mistake as early as possible.

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Jan 21 2009

technology harassment on women!

camera.jpgThey have become ammunition in the hands of romeo’s.They are sleek,handy,tiny,can be set anywhere and everywhere without anyone’s notice too.camera mobile phones–today’s best hitech pieces in everyone’s hand and pocket.leave about the advantages they can provide us with.women are facing lots of problems with these pride buttercakes of new technological invention.Anyone can hold a camera and take your picture.we don’t know where they are set in changing rooms of shopping malls or hotel bathrooms or guest houses.pictures of woman are taken and are send in as mms.video is taken and copied into CD’s to share among friends and many times it is sold or marketed.now it has spread in small villages too and due to this barbarian act,many women in villages are committing suicides.modern technology is spreading vastly all over the world but the laws to be enforced to control crimes in the guise of technology are zero.only old one’s exist and amendments are not done.last december a new IT law was approved by both the sabha’s of parliament.but it is still pending with the president.According to the ammended IT law section 66(E),,,3 years of imprisonment and 2 lakhs of penalty will be laid on the offenders.It would be better if more hard laws are enforced to control such crimes.
women should be careful while changing clothes in changing rooms of shopping malls.just look around and up to see it there are any hidden camera’s.
if you are in a hotel or a guest house,change clothes in the dark.

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Jan 20 2009

share affection to grandparents!

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In this hitech age,people are just like computers working dawn till dusk,achieving so many victories in the race of life.But did you ever think of the parents who gave us birth and brought up us to live a great life like this?many people say that “hey,we provide our parents with good food ,clothes and shelter.we do give them needful money too”.But just think once.Is this enough?are we not becoming more practical than being bonded with emotional shades?when parents become old,they are in need for more emotional attachments and they feel more to spend their time with their children and grand children.spend a littlle more time with them everyday.listen to what they want to say.they will feel so happy.let your children get more affection from their grand parents by letting them spend more time with them.growing distances between family members is not good for the family or the society.so please let your children to be with their grand parents and share affection to them.

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Jan 11 2009

where should i search?!

t-10.jpgt-3.jpgt-11.jpgwhere should i search?

the address of the happiness!

in the wide opened eyes?

where should i search?

the constant island,

in the sea caught in tsunami?

where should i search?

selfcontentedness,

in the heart blocked with commotions?

sunrise,

in the flickering sunset?

melodious music,

in the ears floating in tragic tunes?

peace,

in the country stained with the marks of blood?

how can i show the path of prosperity and unity?

to the people,

who lost their way in the fog of confusion?

how can i get them,

triggered into the swift of goal?

how can i show,

the right direction?

in the flow of tidal waves of terrorism,

from all the directions?

how can i explain the consequenses,

going to happen to the planet,

in the smoke of unending pollution?

how can i wake up an average citizen?

who acts unaware of the society’s plighted scenario?!!!!

lemme do one thing!

lemme first realise my responsibilities,

and fulfill them!

lemme first dream for my country,

and try my best to make it come true!

hope,,,,someone can get inspired!

hope,,,,anyone can get into my path,

and then starts a great innovation,,,,,,,,

of putting the society into a better place,,,,,

of peace and prosperity!

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Jan 10 2009

walk towards villages.

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walk-in-village.jpgwalk towards villages.it is good for health and your memory power.you all know that it is good for your health if you walk near green trees and plants.but the scientists of Michigan University have conducted experiments on two groups of people and proved that walking towards villages/greenery improves memory power and concentration.leader of this experimenting group Mark Berman revealed the result of the experiment conducted.they found that after sending two groups of people for a walk for some time,one group towards villages and one on the city roads,when they were tested for memory power and concentration,the group who went towards villages had more of it than the other group.
we can understand better that going on a walk towards trees or villages which have greenery all around,makes you inhale pure air and you will feel pleasant with peace of mind.city roads are full of pollution and hub.it doesn’t leave you pleasant and that both cases effect your brain and health.one in positive way and the other in a negative way.
so guys go on a walk to an area which is plenty with trees and plants and improve your health,memory power and concentration.its gotta change your perspective about life too.HAPPY WALKING.

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Jan 09 2009

marriage with a militant?!!!

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angelintears.jpgpakistani_women.jpgI don’t understand how these taliban’s take decisions which are so irrelevant to the paths of the society!one of the recent fatwa issued is just a ridiculous one.

New fatwa was issued by pakistan talibans in Islamabad that citizens who have grownup daughters should get them married to militants.It was also ordered that they should announce the wedding of their daughters with militants in masjids.They are warned against the consequences they have to face if they don’t do so!

North east border state is completely in their hands and is just running according their words.

This news came into limelight when an elementary school teacher named salma from peshawar spoke to the magazine “Don” against this fatwa.

Other orders include:

Not to be seen even with relatives without identity cards.
“Nikhanama”should be maintained when going out with husband.
women are going to face a great harassment including their parents now as far as i can imagine.marrying a militant???????????that too under compulsion???????????what is going to be the fate of grownup girls?

where world arena is welcoming women all over the world,what is this retrogressive phenomenon of women in taliban?can’t anyone do justice to them?

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Jan 03 2009

Negligence

what is this word?
negligence
it seems just as a word and a deed postponed or left undone or over looked or given least priority to do.
but is it just that?
i feel that its the biggest mistake done by us.
i don’t agree with anyone saying”ah,its not that important,lets do it later.”
nothing is unimportant when it is a deed you have to do and it is related with your life or the society.
throwing something into mind’s dustbin is just the inefficiency of the person’s capability to judge things and doing them.
“i can pay the current bill after one week,there is still time for the last date.”
you may forget the day you thought of,to pay it or anything might happen which can see you not to pay the bill.result is,one day you and your family will be sitting in darkness and the unnecessary penalty to be paid.
“i will send this message to my friend/neighbour/boss/colleague/wife/husband,,,after sometime.there is still time for the thing,,,”
you may forget the message or your network on mobile may go wrong or you might remember it after the date you thought to pass the message.result is,you will lose your value, credibility and reliability,,,which is so important in our life and which is very hard to gain.
“i will tell later how much i love my fiancee/wife/husband/friend,,,,there is lot of time left to show my concern or love”
you may lose your loved one’s faith or make them feel neglected.the result is,there may be cracks on the relationship you nourished.
“i will do this work later,i can say something like a sticking fake story to cover my negligence
later,,,,there will not be any problem,,,i am sure”
nothing is sure in this world dear,,,,you will lose many things with such an attitude towards work.be answerable to yourself first and later to your higher authorities.the result of your negligence here is,,you may lose your job and may never find a good reference any more….
your negligence may harm others or may be the cause for a disaster too,,,
so guys,what do you think?!!!!
its not an advise but its a serious threat shown in a mirror of your future….
be responsible,
be prompt,
be answerable to your conscience,
be accurate in doing anything that is “to be done.”
and never favor,
disregard,
carelessness,
inattention,
overlooking nature,,,,,all of them compile the biggest mistake”negligence”
never pamper “negligence”in your life……
always remember that “negligence is a curse which occupies your life in various disguises.”

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Dec 28 2008

QUESTIONING IS AN ART DEAR,,,,

we meet so many people everyday.

we speak to many people known or strangers too.

we ask questions,to know about some information.

we answer the questions asked by some people.

from the time we get up early in the morning,it starts with the milkman,and goes on………………..

our family members/colleagues/neighbor etc.,&etc.,…………………………………..

no end for conversations…………….isn’t it?

now u r angry.what’s all this about?

many people doesn’t know how to extract the information they want,from others.

they just aim the questions at the other person,

without ……..

understanding his mental state,

understanding his feelings

and they try to beat out the self esteem.

they mingle up the answer they want to hear,in their question itself.

they should know some fundamental things on how to ask questions.

when the other person doesn’t know,why we have asked him,he may doubt you.
so make him clear,your goal.

give him the value,according to his expressions.
don’t put soooooooooooooooo many questions at a time.

don’t hurry up him to give him his answer.

questions like”is it not what i think?”,”did it happened how i thought?”etc.,can give only yes or no as answers.they can even put the actual answer hidden.so,don’t question like that…….

questions put,which hit the ego/self respect of the other,may inculcate dislike for you,in his heart.so,don’t……………………..

accept the truth that every person has his own thoughts,opinions,just like you do…

“A CONVERSATION SHOULD LEAD TO FRIENDSHIP OR SHOULD ENHANCE THE DEPTH OF FRIENDSHIP,BUT IT SHOULD NOT BREAK IT.”

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Dec 27 2008

loyalty is their wealth,,,,

The sacrifice of a pet dog saved the whole family of Mr.Naushad hussain during the riots of BABRI MASJID destruction in 1992.They hid in a room when the mob of agitators entered their house in INDORE, and wanted to kill them.Their loyal pet dog charged on the attackers to obstruct them from entering the room where Mr.Naushad Hussain’s family was hiding.Furious with anger,the attackers killed it with swords.
Now Naushad’s house is called as “the house of dogs”.His house is a residence of many dogs now.He brings home the street dogs and the one’s whom the owner’s have abandoned due to ill health or old age too.He has constructed a cemetery for dogs in the memory of his pet dog which lost its life saving its master’s family.
What do we have to learn of this?Dog’s are always the loyal friends of human beings.we may not find a great friend in whom we were relying since years.we may not find the pious nature in our relatives on whom we trust all the time,when there comes a time they should help.But we can always trust a dog and its loyalty.
I appreciate Mr.Naushad Hussain for his service to the dogs and I would also like to praise the dog which gave its life for its master.

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